Wedding Ceremony help » Wedding Vows http://www.weddingceremonyhelp.com Wedding Tips And Resources ! Tue, 02 Mar 2010 11:48:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 How To Write Your Own Wedding Vows http://www.weddingceremonyhelp.com/how-to-write-your-own-wedding-vows/ http://www.weddingceremonyhelp.com/how-to-write-your-own-wedding-vows/#comments Wed, 11 Feb 2009 12:48:55 +0000 admin http://www.weddingceremonyhelp.com/?p=19 It is very popular these days for couples to write their own wedding vows, as many people feel that the traditional vows of ‘love, honour and obey’ are no longer relevant for modern ceremonies. There are some vows you must say as part of the legal ceremony, but once you have completed these you will be free to add your own vows, and this can be discussed with the person officiating your wedding, who will also be able to make some suggestions to help you create the perfect vows for your big day.

Key things to think about when writing your vows include:

  • Any special circumstances surrounding how you met or fell in love
  • Things that inspire you about your loved one
  • What goals and dreams you both share
  • What qualities make your relationship unique
  • How love has improved your life and perspective
  • What you have learnt from each other and how you look forward to the future together
  • Special moments in your relationship
  • And most importantly of all, how you feel about each other.

Also if you if any children already, either by your intended spouse or from a previous relationship, then it is a wonderful idea to include them in your vows, and mention how much you and they are looking forward to being part of a new family. This can make your children feel much more a part of the wedding ceremony, especially if they are more grown up and been involved in the planning of the wedding at any stage.

Reading your own vows can be very moving and personal experience, so make sure both you and your partner have discussed what you are both going to say thoroughly, and also make sure you have checked with the officiator of your wedding for the length of time available to read the vows. :cool:

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